My Pov Hands

Pffffff, where do I start?
As someone who has been using stable diffusion for quite some time now, I have always been bothered by how random Point of View hands are. Sometimes, they always show up, and sometimes, they just... don't.
As someone who would like to "touch" my subjects, I decided to find out how to create loras.
I read up on what is going on under the hood, understood more about Checkpoints and Lora's, and eventually published a few Lora's while I kept working on this.

I started collecting a plethora of Point of View action photos: grabbing, holding, squeezing, holding, putting things in orifices.
Full disclosure: At some point I even asked my hubby if he could take photos of his hands while using his "toy" I gave him for when I am out of town for work.

Once I gathered enough photos, I manually added tags/trigger words for each image and rewrote them a few times for a more coherent setup.
(though after testing, I'll rewrite them again at some point)

Anyways,
Lets get to the point.

Trigger words:

povhands - Main Trigger word.
Use it along either of these two:

myhandsgrabbing - higher chance of triggering both left and right hand.

myhandgrabbing - higher chance of triggering either the left or right hand.

Additional important trigger words:

mylefthand - higher chance of using your left hand.
myrighthand - higher chance of using your right hand.

with my left hand - Theoretically, it could be used in a sentence. (I grabbed her breast with my left hand).
with my right hand - In theory... yada.

with both my hands - To do an action with both hands.

Additional trigger words:

touching, grabbing, rubbing, squeezing, spreading, fingering, fingerbang.
fingering her pussy, grabbing her breast, grabbing her left breast, grabbing her right breast, grabbing her thigh, grabbing her leg, touching her, grabbing her neck, squeezing her neck, etc.

By now, you should get the point.

I'll upload many images using these actions so you can read the prompts.

Note:

This is still very much a concept that I intend to improve upon until I am satisfied.
Therefore, I'd appreciate any input and thoughts on the trigger words.

I'd also want more photos of pinching, squeezing, stretching, rubbing, holding, etc. Anything pov-hand-related so I could improve this, Lora. So, if you happen to come across a decent photo of a pov-hand doing something (wink, wink), you can always DM me a link.


Some additional technical info;
Checkpoint this was trained on: SexoholicRealPony, I could pick the regular pony, but as I am going for a more realistic look, after testing and trial and error, this one gave me the best results.
The Lora still works on regular Pony and many of its offshoots, though. Results vary depending on how well Pony is merged with whatever checkpoints people merge it with.

• All the images I'll post use the Sexoholic checkpoint for coherence's sake.

• All the images used my Redhead Lora, because I like redheads. that's all.

• Guidance Scale: 1.5, CFG: 7, Sampler: dpmpp_3m_sde_gpu & sgm_uniform.

• sdxl_vae.

Known issues:
- Sometimes it wants to turn a penis into a hand. (lol)
- It likes to ignore what hand is used, writing left, getting right.
- Occasional more than two hands.
- its hands, its stable diffusion, expect many mutated fingers.
- It still likes to influence the faces too much, making them look slightly like some of the source material, will need to figure out how to avoid that. If you have tips, lemme know!

that is all for now; hugs from FDF.