╚══〔 𝕏 ┊ [SD 1.5] ┊ SDXL ┊ Pony 〕══╝
Move those unruly bows to the back of the head... most of the time. Realistic checkpoints have an infuriating tendency to move the bows to the top of the head for some reason.
If you're having trouble with lots of 'from behind' angles, you can drop the back tag and just use hair bow most of the time.
Also, thank the gods that SD doesn't seem to have a strong understanding of back hair...